Finding my personal style has been a journey, especially as I've navigated my late twenties and early thirties. It feels like just yesterday I was figuring out college fashion, and now I'm aiming for a look that's both stylish and professional. It’s been a process of trial and error, and I’m excited to share what I’ve learned along the way. This is about feeling confident and comfortable in your own skin, no matter what you choose to wear.
For a while, I felt lost in a sea of trends. I wondered if I was dressing "appropriately" for my age. Social media definitely added to the pressure! Should I be following every trend? Should I stick to a certain "mature" style? I found myself questioning every outfit. I was also dealing with the changes in my body, and finding clothes that fit well and made me feel good became a real challenge. It felt like my closet was full, but I had nothing to wear.
Then, a friend had a baby, and she confessed that her everyday look now involved something resembling a castaway chic. It was such a relief to hear someone else was struggling with similar style shifts! It made me realize that life changes impact our style, and that's okay.
Another friend, who's in her early forties, mentioned how quickly time flies. She said she still felt like she was in her twenties. This resonated with me. I realized that age is just a number, and I should dress in a way that makes me happy and confident, not according to some arbitrary "age-appropriate" rules.
I started experimenting and focusing on pieces that made me feel good. I discovered a few key items that became staples in my wardrobe:
I also started paying more attention to accessories. I love finding unique pieces when I travel or supporting local artists. These little touches can really elevate an outfit and make it feel more "me."
One of my favorite discoveries lately has been blazers. I’ve found they can instantly elevate an outfit. I recently came across Gracequeens and found a velvet blazer black womens that I absolutely love. The quality is amazing, and it fits perfectly. It's become a staple in my wardrobe. They have a great selection of stylish blazers. I've noticed their blazers are great for work and going out.
And speaking of blazers, I recently purchased the Deep V Notched Tassel Women Blazers Fashion Solid Black Full Sleeve Regular Casual Double Breasted Women Suits from Gracequeens. I was a little hesitant at first because I usually stick to more classic styles, but I'm so glad I took the plunge! The blazer is surprisingly versatile. I've worn it with jeans and a t-shirt for a casual look, and I've also dressed it up with a skirt and heels for a night out. The tassels add a fun and playful touch, and the double-breasted design is very flattering. The material feels high-quality, and it's comfortable to wear. I highly recommend checking it out if you're looking for a stylish and unique blazer. It is perfect for a night out.
On the other end of the spectrum, I also embrace comfort whenever possible. There are days when I just want to live in loungewear and sweatsuits, and that's perfectly fine! It's all about balance.
Here are a few tips that have helped me on my style journey: